sunday, 1:12 AM

a very dear friend confessed of an unbelievable, unforgivable (to her husband, that is) unimaginable sin she made in her 30+ years of existence... she had an affair with another man, and when she means an affair, it means a full-blown all-you-can-think-of-it-is-all-that-there-is affair.

although it was over, what she did was way out of what i thought she was. i mean, she loved her husband very much, she always speaks of him, and if you have to think of someone who can do that, she may be one of the people who will come last to your list.


and don't blame me, i just knew it from yesterday when she called me. although, yeah, friends can blame themselves for not talking to her, i told her she has her own mind and her it was her own decision to begin with.


i don' know what to think anymore. everybody's telling me to come back and stay with francis because long-distance relationship rarely works... but, as francis himself always says, 'what about the opportunities that comes your way? shouldn't you grab it before it goes...'

love or career... you really can't mix them up, can't you?