goodbye wendy

no, she didn't die... she just left the company yesterday. finished contract.

(yes, she's pretty. no, she's not available anymore.)

she's a good person really... she just has this strange fondness of weird guys, but, as a friend, she is honest in a sweet way and always sharing her "lessons in life"...

here's some points to live by she taught me...

1. don't ever bother cleaning the house. or for that matter, doing any household work. why? because even if you do every single stinking thing a housewife should do, you will not be appreciated anyway. EVER. so why exert any effort at all? just hire a housemaid. it's your husband who will pay anyway...

2. don't get married at an early age. like my age. why? because people change. and the biggest change happens between the age 20 to 25. the person you knew when you are 20 may not be the same when you're both 25. people may say whatever they want, but think about it... people always say something everyday. suppose today they will say "why she didn't get married when they're living together?'"... 10 years later they may say "it was better they didn't get married at all... they're not compatible anyway"

so why bother?

3. living together and not get married is perfectly fine. (another why from me) ...because you will never know he's the one until you've tested your relationship in time. and while you're both (so much) in love, time will come when you will both find someone better than each other and get away with it, because you're not yet bounded by law anyway.

(no, i totally oppose to this)

4. you cannot find a single man in this world who will love ONLY YOU. one time or another, shit will happen. the only thing you can do to get yourself out of the heartbroken girls club is to (get the guts and) tell your beau that he can do whatever he pleases, provided that you will not know about it. her motto is "what i don't know won't hurt me...and vice versa" hahaha

5. live your life like you want to. people will say every f*ckin' word they want, but at the end of the day, you are only answerable tor yourself. give up explaining to mindless freaks and shallow morons, they will not believe you anyway...







and many more... but i have to work now.



oh well... these may or may not coincide with your beliefs... but she is not scared to tell everyone what she is. and she doesn't care if you like her or not. experience-wise, street-wise, relationship-wise... she learned all that because she's not scared to make mistakes.

from what i see from her, it's either you live your life by the rules. or if you don't... well, you can always be a guidance counsellor.


"take it from me... everything you want to learn, i've been there... i've done that!" -wendy